If you’re deciding whether or not a long-distance relationship is right for you and the person you’re with, you might be wondering: How often should you text or talk on the phone or visit each other? How do you stay present in the moment, or happy, when you’re alone and not with them? What kind of routines or ways of communicating will make you closer? Below, anonymous long-distance couples share their advice and tips for making a long-distance relationship work.